When enabled, the accent color you select will be prominently displayed on these elements, giving your desktop a cohesive and customized look. You can modify the color of the taskbar by changing the windows color mode or by configuring accent colors To learn more, see personalize your colors in windows. Pick your color from the windows colors, not the recent colors If that doesn't work then please file the issue in the feedback hub. As far as i know, there’s no option to change the taskbar flashing color
Windows controls this behavior, and it can’t be customized in the settings or even through a registry edit. To change the transparency level in windows 11, go to settings > personalization > colors, and then scroll down to the transparency effects section Toggle the switch to turn transparency effects on or off. Paint your windows desktop with vivid colors in just a few simple steps You can change the color and/or accent color on title bars, the taskbar, and the start button. Change display brightness and color in windows applies to windows 11 windows 10 in this article
Find the colorprevalence key and set its value to 1 to enable the accent color on the taskbar To change the actual accent color, navigate to hkey_current_user\software\microsoft\windows\currentversion\themes\accent. Selecting taskbar setting takes one to taskbar settings page (same as windows key +i, personalization + taskbar) But there is no way there to change icon size or taskbar color.
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